Men Wanting Hot Women Is Different From Women Wanting Dates
So Where Are The Best Women?
Start Saying No
Balancing Your Life With Meeting Women
The Good Looks Myth
How Does Feminism Affect You?
With Women The Self Comes Through
Identifying The Good Bars And Clubs
The Transition
Is Sex A Favor From Women?


Since we both have been in such long marriages, and since the main impetus (personally – not for everyone else) for marriage is kids and family, we’re not really looking for that, in fact we’re both kinda jumpy that it will somehow jinx things. What we’re doing is making the commitment of “forever” that we’ve already stated to each other more tangible. He’s said several times “you do realize at some point it won’t make any sense NOT to be married,” and I’m not *opposed*, but I don’t see any benefit right now. You can add a partner to insurance at both our jobs. I’ve taken legal steps to insure that if something happens to me, he’s not tossed out of what is about to become our house. We’re going to talk to several people wiser than us about how to best and most fairly give him a gradual share of ownership of the house since he’ll be helping me pay for it. For both of us, 2 years isn’t long enough to decide to marry someone, but we want, need, more time together than 2 houses and somewhat overlapping schedules now allow. He’s also got teenage kids who need Dad time, and he sees them almost every day after school and into the evening. Moving in together is a practical way to spend more time together than we’re able to do now.