It has utterly destroyed mercy-pity in me, but it has given me much more compassion than I had when I viewed myself as well, unfairly “marked as prey”.


on April 15, 2010 at 1:26 am Nicole
Badger, it depends how it’s done. In southern culture, if you make eye contact with someone, you’re supposed to greet them. If you do it that way, then in the worst case, folks will just think you’re friendly or southern.

It’s not chasing anyone down. It’s just being engaging and polite but in a “has testicles” way.


on April 15, 2010 at 1:33 am halftone
@badger nation

“A woman told me that saying hi to every woman makes a man look “desperate” to women.

I don’t believe it; is there a rational response to this?”

Dude… did you seriously just tell a girl that you only say hi to girls?


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