Emergency Contact
Five Things I Can’t Do With My Boy Besides The Obvious
From There to Here: When Understanding Gets Lost
The Single Expert
On Nicknames
Just So We're Clear, She Doesn't Want A Relationship Either
A Completely Ridiculous Thing I Used To Think About Women
Some Men Just Don’t Want To Sleep With You
Five Ways Your Facebook Profile Ruined Our Chances
Divorce and Marriage, That Stuff Doesn’t Rub Off
But I digress, point is somethings can best be resolved by not communicating in the immediate. Take a step back, let somethings unwind, cool the tension and calmer heads might prevail in your favor more often than not. I am all for communiction but sometimes we got to know when to not say anything.
Maria
March 31st, 2010 at 17:17 | #20Reply | Quote
Loved both posts!!
“Many of us would like to think the sweetest words we ever heard are enough to make all the problems of our past go away. But imagine if they came from the same person who once did the meanest most selfish thing that’s ever been done to you. Then ask yourself what difference those words would truly make.”
I know for a fact those words will not make any difference at all. If my ex understood that our worlds would be so much better. No matter how much we want those words to changes, most likely everything will stay the same. I believe people should fight for some things but move on from others. Saying nothing at all is easier on everyone. Once you open your mouth, send a text message or leave a long voicemail you have increased the risk of opening wounds that took forever to heal. Its better to leave well enough alone.
Five Things I Can’t Do With My Boy Besides The Obvious
From There to Here: When Understanding Gets Lost
The Single Expert
On Nicknames
Just So We're Clear, She Doesn't Want A Relationship Either
A Completely Ridiculous Thing I Used To Think About Women
Some Men Just Don’t Want To Sleep With You
Five Ways Your Facebook Profile Ruined Our Chances
Divorce and Marriage, That Stuff Doesn’t Rub Off
But I digress, point is somethings can best be resolved by not communicating in the immediate. Take a step back, let somethings unwind, cool the tension and calmer heads might prevail in your favor more often than not. I am all for communiction but sometimes we got to know when to not say anything.
Maria
March 31st, 2010 at 17:17 | #20Reply | Quote
Loved both posts!!
“Many of us would like to think the sweetest words we ever heard are enough to make all the problems of our past go away. But imagine if they came from the same person who once did the meanest most selfish thing that’s ever been done to you. Then ask yourself what difference those words would truly make.”
I know for a fact those words will not make any difference at all. If my ex understood that our worlds would be so much better. No matter how much we want those words to changes, most likely everything will stay the same. I believe people should fight for some things but move on from others. Saying nothing at all is easier on everyone. Once you open your mouth, send a text message or leave a long voicemail you have increased the risk of opening wounds that took forever to heal. Its better to leave well enough alone.